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"Parents residing in the northern part of London seeks an exceptional and qualified tutor to assist their youngest child on his initial journey to growing into an British gentleman."

When reading this listing, you might readily overlook the phrase "first-steps" as simple an expression.

But, it may be the most important aspect of this unusual job advert, as it seeks to find a teacher for a 12-month-old.

Hundreds of submissions have since been sent in since the unnamed family published their request for the £180k-a-year tutor, who must be "an exceptional individual".

In recent few weeks, the advert has received notice in the media, with several wondering why?

Innovative Idea

A tutoring expert, head and founder of a global tutoring firm, which is supporting the family in their search, explained that notwithstanding early doubt, he found the idea "forward-looking", and "innovative".

When he met the family, he noted they recognized the unconventional aspect of their request, and how early in age their son is.

However, they stated that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to get a tutor, as they had postponed until their older child was five, and by that point "cultural influence had by then taken hold".

What exactly does the family refer to by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "all-encompassing", the expert replied. "How you eat, the way you speak".

He explained the older sibling had adopted "really subtle, unspoken signals" from the family, and had taken on their cultural norms. The family told him they hoped to prevent this pattern to recur with their new baby.

The intention: To bring in a English tutor, who should speak with standard English accent, to guide the baby right from the beginning.

Osmotic Learning

"Much of the development at the outset here is rather osmotic," said the CEO.

It's via this subtle influence that the family are aiming the child will pick up the English characteristics they want to cultivate.

The consultant explained the tutor needed to be an individual who attended "prestigious academies – similar types of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The tutor simply needs to be the suitable individual, they'll be doing things they don't even know they're doing, effortlessly," he commented.

Money No Object

The family explained to the expert the successful candidate should ideally also have familiarity of or enthusiasm in horse riding, alpine skiing, creative fields and musical activities so as to inspire the child in a broad spectrum of interests.

Additionally though, he stated the family desired the tutor to register the child on a range of classes so the child would be "equestrian training and picking up an musical instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's minds, assisting their son become a "English gentleman" will lead to achievement and create opportunities.

"Considering the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's undoubtedly a status symbol," he comments.

However, notwithstanding all this instruction in "English culture", would the child pick up what is termed cultural leaning from the international family he lives with anyway?

"Yes", replied the CEO. "They understand this may not work, but they've just taken the view of, 'we should try and we should start as quickly as we can', because the price of it is irrelevant," he stated.

Impractical

A number of in the private teaching field who have similar doubts.

Peter Cui, head and founder of an educational organization, who supplies individual instructors, wrote that "the process of adopting dual cultures, or indeed, discovering oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not manufactured."

Peter noted that he had moved from Asia to the United Kingdom at the period of childhood, and had been raised understanding and embodying dual heritages. He went on to be educated at Cambridge University.

"The notion that one individual can function as a embodiment of English culture, a person who can possibly impart the characteristics of a British gentleman to a one-year-old child, strikes me as optimistic and unrealistic," he stated.

"Based on my background, employing a distinctly English tutor from infancy will does not necessarily create the result they hope for.

"I wasn't provided with such a figure, and however I have been privileged enough to experience numerous of the experiences they hope for their son."

He stated: "The fact is, cultural identity cannot be imposed from the outside; it must be chosen, and it must come from within."

Acquiring Englishness

Certainly, UK identity is something the CEO hopes can be instructed – and commercialized.

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